Think You're Afraid To Talk Or Meet Up With Girls?
There is a simple thing that guys could do to raise their confront on approaching women and meeting women.
Whenever you feel uneasy in any situation, it means that you are approaching this scenario on too high a gradient. Rather than runing away from the situation, reduce the gradient.
What are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder. By trying to go to the top of the ladder on your initial step, it will be impossible to accomplish, and you will not succeed. If you keep trying it over and over you will begin to build up a complex about failing, and soon not make an effort anymore.
If you try to jump up five or six steps in your first try, it will also be frightening -- not necessarily impossible but frightening. And the probability is that if you have no experience jumping that high you will fail .
The proper approach is to take the first step and then progress one-step at a time. It is the most comfortable approach to climb a ladder.
When I was a young man I would notice a woman I was attracted to and believed I had to tell her how much I liked her right away. Well that was jumping up too many steps on the ladder. I didn't even know her.
The initial step is a simple "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get confident just saying "Hi" to girls. Then as step two when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, respond to the question, or make a comment about something that she has her interest on to continue the conversation. For example, if you are in a bookstore and she is taking a look at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?
Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Get acquainted with her before you decide that you like her.
Of course, there is a whole lot more to it, but these are excellent basics to start with. If you use gradients ultimately you will learn how to meet women.
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