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Fine, we have all seen that myth - that "nice guys" do not make it and the 'bad boys" attract women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy versus a nice guy.

I think there are other personality vectors involved that possibly bad boys and nice guys have that are the identifying qualities of attraction.

Bad boys tend to be less shy, but also they are more confident in general than nice guys. I believe that it would be these personalities that are attracting a woman not the fact that a guy is bad.

I personally almost never use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. Nevertheless, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that easily when talking to me. I am a little unapproachable, I don't compliment women when I initially meet them or tell them how beautiful they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am interested in them or just being nice.

That is what sets me beyond a "nice guy". Women see me as a rightful gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - prefer that. They are sick and tired of meeting men who praise them.

Girls like guys who are interesting and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has a pleasant conversation with them without stating a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also remember that women have different characters. And what one thinks is interesting and unique differs from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking woman may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well find a guy who talks a little bad and naughty to be interesting and different. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.

You see regardless of what you are like there is a person for you. But you have to define who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet people like that. So no matter if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a situation where you are interesting and unique to the women you encounter and you will be successful.

One of the most difficult things to learn in life is that no matter what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are boring there are women who are completely compatible with that. Not every one desires to meet and hook up with the life of the party.

The problem is people who don't admit themselves for who they are, try and act differently and they are not being themselves, so they don't attract anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will find that there are people who will embrace you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are dull or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.

What Exactly Are The Probabilities Of Meeting Mr. Right On The Internet?
The odds of finding your "soul-mate" online are a lot better than you may think. It doesn't happen for everyone, of course, but it can happen for you. The world of internet or online dating has exploded over the last few years.

Mr. Right Doesn't Exist At All
You ARE going to have to actively seek the man of your dreams and you won't find him hiding under your bed. You already know that he isn't among the men that you are acquainted with so, now what? Online dating is "what".

Blind Date Compared To Online Date - Which Method Is Effective
Your friend has decided that you need help with your social life so she sets you up with a blind date - a friend of a friend of a friend.

Is David Deangelo A Fraud? Is His Work Double Your Dating A Bunk?
Is David Deangelo a scam? Well, my first reaction is to say no, as he does provide a very good service to men. He really gives us a lot of useful data on how to meet women.

How To Talk With Any Girl, Anytime, Anywhere Successfully.
What to do to get the conversation going when there is seemingly nothing to talk about. How to spark conversation with ANY girl in a very simple and effective manner.

Read And Discover If David Deangelo And Ross Jeffries Are A Scam?
Article looks at David Deangelo (Double Your Dating) and Ross Jeffries (Speed Seduction) and evaluates them in terms of are their materials, books and information scams?

Think You're Afraid To Talk Or Meet Up With Girls?
Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Rather than running away from the situation, lower the gradient.